Friday, March 14, 2014

Spanked Wives Club Meet Up

OK, so there is no Spanked Wives Club, but there should be. If you are a spanked wife or want to be spanked wife would you like to join???  Camaraderie is an amazing thing...

Last weekend Jennelle from A New Perspective, and Tricia from Love of My Life, Head of the House met up for a girl's weekend. It was awesome!



Day One

We waited for this day FOREVER. I think if we were all honest we doubted it would ever happen. But the day finally arrived. I boarded a plane. The other two girls got in their cars. And in a few hours, we were finally together! A whole weekend, 3 dd wives, and more laughter than you could possibly imagine.

T brought all of her worldly belongings so it was no surprise when her possessions included a firearm, a large cutlery knife, a veggie peeler, and a human organ transplant lunch box.

I seriously thought we would never stop laughing. We all sent a pic of that assortment to our H's and the endless supply of banter about kidney's being ripped out in the middle of the night commenced. I thought my H might be slightly freaked by the pic, but his response?

Woman after my own heart 

LOL

We got checked into the hotel, went out to dinner, walked around the mall, and then onto the pool and hot tub at the hotel.

Normal girls night out. Except that our conversation included words like "spanked" "implements" "rules" and "HoH," Our night time conversation turned more intimate....butt plugs, anal sex, toys, restraints.

There were no limits.



We are officially bonded for life.


Day Two

Breakfast at the hotel, off to this ginormous sex store. I think there were three floors. When I told my H where we were going, he laughed so hard! (He has been trying to get me to go for years!) J and I were total sex store virgins and this was quite the experience... although our bedroom has quite a few of the things there so I am no stranger to the contents of the store. ;)

We must have been quite the entertainment for the people who worked there. We were like 3 crazy curious girls showing our semi ignorance  with complete abandon.

We had to call my H several times for some advice...which included sending pics of butt plugs and lube. And questions like "do people really use those? How does it fit???"

Always the kind professional, he was patient and kind and did NOT laugh at us at all. Though we laughed enough at ourselves! And we may or may not have tried out a few implements on each other...I mean...quality control right???

The lady at the counter when we were checking out: "Did you find what you were looking for? You were here for a long time." bahahahaha! In other words, we didn't sneak in with a hoodie, discreetly make purchases and fade into the night...

Off to get pedicures. That's a more "normal" girls weekend activity right? Except I am pretty sure if you looked for those nail license pictures, the lady who did mine would not have one...I think she was just someone's grandma...I kept checking for blood! yikes!

Dinner at the Melting Pot (can you call it dinner when it lasts over 3 hours?!?!?), a trip to Wine World, I mean Total Wine...(they actually have wine stores the size of Target...who know?!?!), I had Moscato for the first time. Can I tell you how hilarious some of our conversations that evening were.

J: Cole, are you going to get in trouble if we drink?
Me: No as long as the driver doesn't.
T: How long? Is two hours enough?
J: You better text. Be sure and ask. I don't wanna get spanked because you got in trouble over this.

ohmyword

that night..wine in plastic cups in the hotel room--

J: Are you sure you are allowed?
Me: Yes its fine. OHMY ok, I will text him and let him know so you can stop freaking out.
(I text SC to let him know I am trying Moscato. His response? Do you like it?) I ask J if she is satisfied and we can move on now!



After wine... back to the hot tub.

It is amazing how a conversations can change from submission to homeschooling in .2 seconds....when someone joins you. ;)

We ended our night with a fun phone call from our friend Callie from About US across the pond. I am fairly certain I fell asleep no less than 5 times ... but it was a blast anyway!

Day Three

At breakfast I am fairly certain the man behind us heard me say something about getting spanked. He kept turning around to look at us. And I kept waiting for him to turn around and take pictures. (He didn't!)



Some shopping (found an old rug beater at the Antique store...we left it there...) and lunch at a fun local restaurant and all too soon it was time to head home.



Well not before T realized she left her human organ transplant lunch box in the hotel and we had to call them and have them put it aside for us. When we got there I was surprised that the dude at the counter wasn't wearing gloves the way he handled the lunchbox. He did say the staff had stayed away from the fridge while it was there.



It was seriously the best weekend ever!

Being around like minded friends was amazing. No need to defend your H's obsessive need for you to check in... every time we changed activities we all would do a "text the H check!" To not panic when in front of friends your H requires a "sir" on the phone, or demands you buy something specific at the "toy" store... It was so great to be completely open and know that your friends would all understand. Our goal of the weekend was to get home without having to be spanked upon return. (Almost all of us made that!) ;)

Since starting dd, one of my biggest challenges has been feeling so secretive and not as open and genuine as I have always been...the door to a big area of my life is closed. Hanging out with these ladies was such an amazing blessing. And seriously??? We shared way more than I could have imagined... Do you know how freeing it is to leave the room and NOT panic that someone might peek into your Kindle?!?! Sometimes it's the little things...

So, have any of you had some irl meetups with online or irl dd friends?


Oh, and it's still March Q&A so if you haven't asked a question and want to or have another...I will be answering soon! :)

27 comments:

  1. What a great time! That sounds like so much fun. Do you have the next meetup planned?

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    1. We should plan one Leah...Florida Panhandle!?!

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    2. I'm in! I'll bet we could find a good sex store there.

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    3. It was so fun! And I am totally in for another in the panhandle! Yes!!! I am sure we could find a few good places to hang out! ;)

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    4. Just got to this post. U guys are so lucky. Sounds like a blast.

      Jackie green with envy. I live in the northeast if u ever come in this direction.

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  2. Cole,
    Cali Mom and I just had lunch together yesterday and it was one of the best afternoons of my life. I so appreciate your sharing.
    Meredith

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    1. Meredith, how fun!!! I am so glad you got that opportunity. So glad it was a great experience, hope you get to do it again soon!

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  3. That sounds like SO much fun! I've always wanted a meet up too. I fully support a Spanked Wives Club.

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    1. Such a blast! It is a little nerve wracking leading up to it, but oh so worth it! I shall count you in on the membership! ;)

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  4. Sounds like a great time was shared by all. I have not had this opportunity yet, but sure would welcome some fun time out with the girls where anything goes. Hopefully some day...

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    1. Catherine, you definitely should take it if you ever get the opportunity. So much fun! A girls weekend with dd friends is unlike any other! All other girls weekends will never compare! :)

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  5. Started this comment again. I think that you are so awesome to meet with blog friends. These friendships always seem to be automatic and real. Just like your fun time, it's awesome. Me, I am too chicken to do it.
    My question to you is, do you see yourself and your husband still doing dd when you are old. Like seeing yourself over the bed and him spanking you...

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    1. You are so right about them being automatic and "real." They are more real than anything irl these days! Wait, you will do a nudist colony but not a meet up??? I am not buying the chicken thing! LOL ;)

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  6. Wow! There have been so many meet ups lately. This is like the 4th or 5th one I have read about that either happened recently or was about to happen. I am happy you all had such a great time and totally jealous too. :) Sounds like it was such fun!

    sara :)

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    1. I am so glad more people are meeting up and getting to know each other. Sounds like you need to do it yourself soon! ;)

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  7. I've seriously have never laughed so much in my life, or felt so comfortable. I guess I'm no longer so "vanilla" after this trip lol. I can't wait to do it again, I don't know what I would do without you girls, our friendship as been such a blessing!!

    Love ya!!

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    1. seriously!!! And yes, vanilla no more my dear! ;) Though like I told you...you owned a paddle and your husband uses it on you...I don't think you were as vanilla as you think! ;)

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  8. Sounds like a total blast for all of you! Yes it is so freeing to be with like-minded people. I just got to experience that this week when I got to meet & hug Meredith. It was so amazingly awesome.

    And how fun to go explore a sex toy store together? I think that would be easier than going with a husband actually. I'm sure they all enjoyed what you brought home!

    :) Cali

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    1. it was such a blast! I am so glad you got to meet up with Meredith! How fun! yes, the sex store shopping was definitely an adventure! I promised SC I would go with him when the next opportunity arose though! lol

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  9. What a perfect meet up! How wonderful that you guys were able to share so openly face to face :-) There really is a certain exhilaration to being able to finally say certain things out loud to people in the flesh as opposed to typing it to those same people across the country. I hope all of the ladies out here in blogland(and fellas too!)get to experience this at least once :-)

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    1. So so so true! Saying it verse typing it...so freeing! and not having to worry about what you say?? Priceless! I do hope everyone gets the opportunity! It was a wonderful experience, one I hope to repeat soon!

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  10. I love this. You didn't miss a detail of our amazing weekend!!! I had so so much fun and laughed so hard my stomach hurt. Love you guys! Miss you!!!

    Tricia

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    1. Yes my friend! Forever bonded by sex toys and laughter! ;) Miss you and love you lots my friend!

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  11. LOL...it sounds like you had a great time! Good for you. It's so great to read about people meeting each other b/c I know how meaningful it is.

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    1. Thank you, it was so very meaningful, and such a wonderful experience!

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  12. Yay! I'm so happy you got to meet up in person! I just got to meet Natasha Knight. We compared implements and did a lot of mouthing things behind her kids' backs. LOL.

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  13. Cole, this is fabulous. Sign me up for the club ;-) So glad you ha such a wonderful time, the sex store, too funny.

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