tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post5960862849326162284..comments2021-03-12T16:24:40.314-08:00Comments on Marriage Redefined: Levels of DistancingColehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-48983183523631855062014-01-21T10:22:35.143-08:002014-01-21T10:22:35.143-08:00Thanks! I am glad to! ;) Thanks! I am glad to! ;) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-79973594554104842142014-01-21T10:22:04.663-08:002014-01-21T10:22:04.663-08:00Thanks EsMay. I think I may have laughed as well.....Thanks EsMay. I think I may have laughed as well...though I don't think SC thought it funny! lol I love that we can always count on our H's to be there....even though sometimes we think we would prefer they give us a little more space ;) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-46334454852996842032014-01-21T10:20:25.880-08:002014-01-21T10:20:25.880-08:00Thank you! I am glad it got addressed...being dist...Thank you! I am glad it got addressed...being distant is never fun! Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-81652047221770845502014-01-21T10:19:30.005-08:002014-01-21T10:19:30.005-08:00Sara, sorry about the rough time you had, but oh s...Sara, sorry about the rough time you had, but oh so glad you are back! Though the process is never very fun! I hope to blog more this year as well :)Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-66999327761650881932014-01-21T10:18:34.667-08:002014-01-21T10:18:34.667-08:00MIA is NOT a good place to be! I don't like to...MIA is NOT a good place to be! I don't like to be alone...;) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-66983173532685247672014-01-21T10:17:59.885-08:002014-01-21T10:17:59.885-08:00I think we as dd wives find ourselves here way mor...I think we as dd wives find ourselves here way more often than we would care to admit! ;) And yes, I am oh so glad he "has me." I love the safety of being there! Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-1215686992679630982014-01-21T10:16:57.541-08:002014-01-21T10:16:57.541-08:00Oh J, that is so hard. The emotional neediness has...Oh J, that is so hard. The emotional neediness has been so tough for me....but it is so critical. I cannot rely on him as HoH without being dependent on him. And my being dependent on him makes me emotionally needy because I am no longer dependent on myself. I don't always like it, but I know it is necessary to get the most out of this dynamic. Hugs my friend!!!Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-80796161496546101472014-01-21T10:15:21.502-08:002014-01-21T10:15:21.502-08:00Hi Meredith! I have missed you as well! Glad to be...Hi Meredith! I have missed you as well! Glad to be back :) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-30595786309569278752014-01-19T06:21:47.915-08:002014-01-19T06:21:47.915-08:00Cole, I loved your thoughts, and how you guys dete...Cole, I loved your thoughts, and how you guys determine how far gone you are. I'm sorry, I shouldn't have, but had a good laugh when you said you were MIA. Yep, you had a little bit of sass. :) How wonderful that he was there, and as you said, you didn't have to think about how to make it right, it was his job. What a beautiful display of submission, even when you felt like you were soaring off into space, or, er, headed for a belly flop with the ground.<br /><br />{{{hugs}}} EsMayEsMayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06331562552269848546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-18975960780111425712014-01-18T16:50:35.982-08:002014-01-18T16:50:35.982-08:00Thanks Cole for sharing such a wonderful post. Thi...Thanks Cole for sharing such a wonderful post. This is just exactly what I am experiencing and it got addressed today. I so enjoy your blog and your thoughtful insights. Annabellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10908776052501507880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-71743204316772658192014-01-18T14:18:23.071-08:002014-01-18T14:18:23.071-08:00Even though it hurt, I'm glad he got you back ...Even though it hurt, I'm glad he got you back to where you needed to be. I think the code words are so cute, and such a great idea.<br /><br />Nice to see you back! :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-60190114806947553342014-01-18T08:00:59.823-08:002014-01-18T08:00:59.823-08:00I love your posts Cole. I hope you can blog a bit ...I love your posts Cole. I hope you can blog a bit more this year but totally understand that life makes it a challenge to be here sometimes. The 5th D is a very big deal. When I distanced myself from SM it went on for a couple of months and was a very bad thing to do. He tried to bring me back several times but I was lost at sea!!! I don't even remember how the rescue finally came about but I am so glad it did. It's great that your H helped you so quickly and knew what to ask you. Glad things are good again.<br /><br />love<br />saraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-78767012056756133412014-01-18T05:17:34.628-08:002014-01-18T05:17:34.628-08:00I'm glad your back! I know how you feel, I ten...I'm glad your back! I know how you feel, I tend to go MIA when I'm in those moods. I'm glad he was able to bring you back.<br />KimAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349584751055182836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-42028387268623725462014-01-17T22:29:48.267-08:002014-01-17T22:29:48.267-08:00I have to say I understand this situation all to w...I have to say I understand this situation all to well. You did a great job of explaining the entire picture. I have missed your blogs as I relate so well. Glad your H brought you back. It is good to know he has you. Thanks for sharing your difficult time.Annabellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10908776052501507880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-10876935274274851142014-01-17T20:19:37.916-08:002014-01-17T20:19:37.916-08:00I know it wasn't fun, but I'm so happy tha... I know it wasn't fun, but I'm so happy that you're back!! I struggle with distancing so much, I guess I'm never ready to admit that's what it is, and when I finally do...I'm usually soaring or MIA too. It's so hard when your heart is not into it, and it's hard when they travel..I feel like I shouldn't be so dependent on him emotionally, so I do distance a little..Ugh, it's hard. I'm just glad he pulled you back so quickly! Good job SC ;) HUGS<br /><br />Love, JJennellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16417771951192212286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-56402269098310542952014-01-17T19:47:49.339-08:002014-01-17T19:47:49.339-08:00Cole,
So glad to see you blogging. Glad to hear th...Cole,<br />So glad to see you blogging. Glad to hear things are smoother now. I missed you.<br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com