tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post5957975456486391910..comments2021-03-12T16:24:40.314-08:00Comments on Marriage Redefined: Danger, Dishonesty, and the StrapColehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-2448351504880266282013-05-31T10:46:30.953-07:002013-05-31T10:46:30.953-07:00the trick? A sore bottom!!!!! I am soooooo sore th...the trick? A sore bottom!!!!! I am soooooo sore that I didn't dream of speeding today! I have been spanked 5 out of the last 6 nights for speeding. Ouch!!!! Apparently sore bottoms and leather seats are the cure for speeding. :( Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-1998980733484293522013-05-31T10:45:25.176-07:002013-05-31T10:45:25.176-07:00Oh dear Mischief...I have been spanked 5 out of th...Oh dear Mischief...I have been spanked 5 out of the last 6 days for speeding. I am sore!!! I am hoping that tapering off part comes quickly!!! ;) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-80603302626880057952013-05-31T10:43:48.119-07:002013-05-31T10:43:48.119-07:00guilt is tough. :( I wish there was another way to...guilt is tough. :( I wish there was another way to get rid of the guilt. Or at least my bum wishes so! lolColehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-55629428576234338562013-05-31T10:42:48.881-07:002013-05-31T10:42:48.881-07:00hugs!!! So so hard. Even when you know you need mo...hugs!!! So so hard. Even when you know you need more it is hard to accept that...Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-73160695747715448782013-05-31T10:42:02.067-07:002013-05-31T10:42:02.067-07:00Cali, it is so true that these rules are because t...Cali, it is so true that these rules are because they love us and want what is best for us....but why oh why is is so hard to obey! :( Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-83344087324365340842013-05-31T10:40:45.907-07:002013-05-31T10:40:45.907-07:00small town life might be easier on my bottom! Lol ...small town life might be easier on my bottom! Lol I could certainly use less time in the car! :) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-23873255701515762092013-05-31T10:39:51.129-07:002013-05-31T10:39:51.129-07:00Yes, SC usually asks and knows a hesitation of lac...Yes, SC usually asks and knows a hesitation of lack of response usually means yes, I need more. I have been having such a hard time not saying "no" though....and honestly I guess that is lying :( ick. Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-75555611445628060432013-05-31T10:38:50.006-07:002013-05-31T10:38:50.006-07:00Sorry for causing you to wince! I winced too! ;)In...Sorry for causing you to wince! I winced too! ;)In the passed I have found it easier to say that but I don't know why I am having such a hard time with it right now...Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-81476714830537427762013-05-30T09:18:00.060-07:002013-05-30T09:18:00.060-07:00We had that issue last spanking. I thought I deser...We had that issue last spanking. I thought I deserved more but didnt want to say it. I ended up telling him when we were going to bed that I thought for the particular issue, there should have been more. Well see what happens next time.<br /><br />I can totally relate to the speeding thing too, if you figure out how to do the speed limit, can you let me know the trick?! LolKenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-20994089314120573192013-05-28T14:44:58.233-07:002013-05-28T14:44:58.233-07:00I wouldn't be able to say no if the answer was...I wouldn't be able to say no if the answer was yes but I don't think I could say yes either. My lack of answer would be enough of an answer for Tm. Since a no is easy to say if I don't need more, any hesitation and clearly it isn't enough. Tm doesn't usually ask if I need more but sometimes I wish he did since sometimes I don't feel like it was enough.<br /><br />Speeding is difficult. I remember when Tm cracked down on that and I ended up spanked 5 days in a row at first before it tapered off a bit. Not fun. I will admit I do much better now at paying attention but it was a 'painful' journey to get here if you know what I mean.Mischiefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15206940756218059735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-23779427374012995142013-05-28T10:43:33.792-07:002013-05-28T10:43:33.792-07:00When Ty asks me if I need more, all I have to do i...When Ty asks me if I need more, all I have to do is hesitate and the spanking goes on. When I am done, I yell "no more, please". And to get rid of the guilt, it usually takes a second spanking for me. I hate it when I feel so bad about something I did wrongBlondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-16809817745076162972013-05-27T12:59:37.046-07:002013-05-27T12:59:37.046-07:00Oh goodness. I got a hide tanning last night. And ...Oh goodness. I got a hide tanning last night. And when it comes to feeling guilty, he asks me if I need more. If I whine or say something other than "no" I will get more. A lot more. And it will hurt. And this is why I'm sitting gingerly today. (((hugs)))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-88229457043848906532013-05-26T20:54:42.884-07:002013-05-26T20:54:42.884-07:00I confess I have a hard time with speed limit sign...I confess I have a hard time with speed limit signs too. Where I live, no one drives the speed limit, except maybe my husband, lol. But I do drive safely and I have a better driving record than he does, so......<br /><br />But I know it's important for us to obey our husband's wishes/rules. They love us and want what's best for us, including for us to be safe.<br /><br />I think it's sweet that you gave up time from something you were enjoying for yourself, to attend your daughter's sporting event. That'll always speak volumes of your love for her/them. <br /><br />:) CaliAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-34171999183459574822013-05-26T19:15:46.707-07:002013-05-26T19:15:46.707-07:00{{cole}} coming from someone who drives like a gra...{{cole}} coming from someone who drives like a granny, i don't have the "obey all traffic laws" as a rule. lol however, i have been asked if needed "more" during a spanking and it's always awful. i don't want to lie and say NO and i don't want MORE because who wants that?! usually i'll stop and pause and that tells him right away that i'm not ready to get up... like sara said, he'll keep spanking. yup. same here. so that's annoying! ack! but in the end, (quite literally), it all works out and i'm glad that i am able to work through whatever it is i'm needing to work through.<br /><br />we live in a really small town so there's no real "rush" to get anywhere. for instance, one of the fast food restaurants we have here is mcdonald's and most cities have ten or fifteen... we have ONE. lol so that should give you an idea of the size of the our town, i think it's 7K in total. <br /><br />maybe you should move here, it might help you from getting a sore bottom. :) hee hee<br /><br />hugs,<br />m.maryannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14039657944100565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-9638111363246944412013-05-26T17:43:31.430-07:002013-05-26T17:43:31.430-07:00Yes you can ask for more. StrongMan always asks if...Yes you can ask for more. StrongMan always asks if I need more. I can say no and he will say, "Are you sure?" And if I say no again he will be done after a few more swats. If I say,"Yes," when he asks if I need more, well, he spanks some more. If I don't answer him because I am thinking it over, he assumes I definitely need more and he spanks away! You can also see my post that I did today which talks about Chores and Tasks. Maybe they would help you? It depends on your personality. Check it out. Either way, I hope you will be all better soon.<br />much love<br />saraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-59003341874653678882013-05-26T16:18:35.257-07:002013-05-26T16:18:35.257-07:00I have answered yes. I have also, when given grace...I have answered yes. I have also, when given grace by Ward, said that perhaps I felt I deserved a correction. That didn't make him real happy in the moment, but in the end he understood that while I accepted his grace, my guilt persisted. <br /><br />Yes, I kinda winced when I saw the title, lol<br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.com