tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post3761229936870578501..comments2021-03-12T16:24:40.314-08:00Comments on Marriage Redefined: 7 Day Spring Challenge! Colehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-51567675487487233282013-04-22T06:35:53.558-07:002013-04-22T06:35:53.558-07:00That is such a good idea! My Hoh is a very quiet m...That is such a good idea! My Hoh is a very quiet man and often whispers or talks in a low tone to make his point clear whether it is with me, or the children. I almost never think of it though! I will have to try! quiet_sara :)quiet_saranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-9761982258951099042013-04-16T20:13:00.655-07:002013-04-16T20:13:00.655-07:00Thanks for stopping by Sara! I doubt I will find a...Thanks for stopping by Sara! I doubt I will find any secret weapon to help...but, I am two days down! Woohoo! :) my biggest tool so far? Whispering! When I feel the urge to yell, drop my voice to a whisper...since I am aggravated it probably comes out more around normal tone...but it is gentler! Lol ;) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-34932239493921718802013-04-16T16:52:41.819-07:002013-04-16T16:52:41.819-07:00Oh goodness, no advice here whatsoever but if you ...Oh goodness, no advice here whatsoever but if you figure out how to do it please share! "No raising my voice" is one of my top rules from my Hoh and it is so difficult! Hope you can complete your challenge with flying colors! quiet_sara :)quiet_saranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-59288782924073153532013-04-16T10:19:06.244-07:002013-04-16T10:19:06.244-07:00Challenges do help! Even though we have "othe...Challenges do help! Even though we have "other motivation" to follow the rules...something about a challenge is very motivating! :) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-59026644317520268142013-04-16T08:50:59.303-07:002013-04-16T08:50:59.303-07:00Sounds like a good challenge. I should probably ma...Sounds like a good challenge. I should probably make a challenge for my bedtime rule as well since I am having so much trouble with it. I imagine knowing it is a challenge will be more helpful in sticking with it since you have something to aim for. In any case good luck :)Mischiefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15206940756218059735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-72842604335688130042013-04-16T08:19:19.924-07:002013-04-16T08:19:19.924-07:00*count ROFL *count ROFL Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-20268443806361711472013-04-16T08:12:13.901-07:002013-04-16T08:12:13.901-07:00Thank you! :) Thank you! :) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-21510280351661705692013-04-16T08:12:00.238-07:002013-04-16T08:12:00.238-07:00I have done way better at the screaming., it doesn...I have done way better at the screaming., it doesn't happen nearly as much anymore. Yelling a name or stop! Is ok...but I am trying to leave it at that. Day two is underway and I am so far so good! :) we definitely pick battles, and we are big fans of reality discipline and know it works. Just a matter of doing what I need to do! :) I know never yelling wont be a reality, but I would like to minimize it! :) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-69850152041777408852013-04-16T08:09:01.452-07:002013-04-16T08:09:01.452-07:00Thanks for the thoughts! Yes I have sent them to t...Thanks for the thoughts! Yes I have sent them to their rooms for a few minutes...not 15, but it does help even for a few minutes. Hope your challenge goes well! I am fearful that my day will come where I am forced to deal ore radically. I have been going to the gym (small doses) and drinking more water. I need to do a major weight loss challenge, but it has been difficult! Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-80519069985479918292013-04-16T08:06:34.437-07:002013-04-16T08:06:34.437-07:00Thank you! Yes I keep telling myself to keep calm!...Thank you! Yes I keep telling myself to keep calm! Lol and yes, I am realistic! ;) Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-42524399766347431912013-04-16T08:05:38.307-07:002013-04-16T08:05:38.307-07:00Thank you! I think I would need to cunt to 100, 10...Thank you! I think I would need to cunt to 100, 10 doesn't seem to cut it! LolColehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14094102802633154552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-49378991372520009342013-04-16T04:15:19.670-07:002013-04-16T04:15:19.670-07:00Good luck with your challenge Cole. I wish you muc...Good luck with your challenge Cole. I wish you much luck. <br /><br />CallieCalliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08722173496181331492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-82423472574229025842013-04-16T01:28:45.851-07:002013-04-16T01:28:45.851-07:00I have four kids never yelling is unrealistic. If ...I have four kids never yelling is unrealistic. If I didnt yell at least once a day nothing would get done and no one would be on time. With that said I did get some great advice once from my kids pediatrician. Pick and choose things, pick the battles and things that should be yelled at for. Then count to ten and talk through the rest. Its helped me and my vocal cords. I was a screamer and had to have surgery on my vocal cords because of it. Good LuckAnniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12409300680541773011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-55339523489243469872013-04-15T19:15:41.347-07:002013-04-15T19:15:41.347-07:00The only thing that I may add to your suggestions ...The only thing that I may add to your suggestions is this.. you know how some TIH have the 15 min rule. Maybe you could have it in reverse.. send your children to their room or a spot for 15 minutes, so you can think about how your gonna respond. I haven't looked back to see how old your children are, so keep that in mind in my response. Good luck on your challenge. I wasn't going to do a spring challenge, but I have sorta been forced into it. I was diagnosed with diabetes on Friday. I am now having to change up my eating and exercise for sure. Wish me luck.. I love to eat.. I hate to exercise.. God bless you and yours, -Belle L.Belle Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222752720181960143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-5324310493764254352013-04-15T15:46:32.464-07:002013-04-15T15:46:32.464-07:00Good luck with your challenge! Sometimes when I ha...Good luck with your challenge! Sometimes when I have things I need to work on, I create a little mantra for myself to say over and over... "I will leave on time for work. I will get out the door on time and start my day off right." I just say it over and over in my head... hoping a little of it sinks in! I love how realistic you are in setting your goal at 7 days for just 1 behavior. :) Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14157634787290693634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-190265362537976617.post-48092217718110246812013-04-15T15:34:30.050-07:002013-04-15T15:34:30.050-07:00Hi Cole. Cute post :) Besides the extra *incentiv...Hi Cole. Cute post :) Besides the extra *incentive* you already have to change this habit, the only thing that really comes to my mind is that oldie, but goodie; count to ten. I know, I know, much easier said than done in the heat of the moment! My long time habit of being a control freak is slowly but surely improving since DD. I tend to think twice before saying those rude, bossy things that I used to. With very good reason! Good luck with your 7 days, I'm sure you can do it :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com